What do you write in a baby shower card? Are you staring at a blank card, pen in hand with your mind completely blank? I know the feeling! You want to take the time to write something meaningful, but your mind just isn’t getting the memo. And as much as you try to think of words to stand out or that express your excitement for this special moment, you feel stuck.
I have experienced a few writing blocks in my life, so I know the feeling well. Today, I am going to help you finish that card. Whether you’re writing to a first-time mom, a growing family, or someone who has waited years for this moment, your words can make a lasting impression.
Why Your Words Matter More Than the Gift
Yes, gifts are wonderful and trust me, every mom-to-be appreciates them. However, babies grow out of gifts in a blink of an eye whereas a heartfelt message in a baby shower card is a keepsake. It’s something that a new parent might tuck away in a memory box and look back on years later. (I know I do that from time to time.)
That’s why putting a little extra thought into your message is worth it. But don’t worry—I’ll guide you step by step on what to write in a baby shower card, whether you want to be sentimental, funny, or inspiring.
Step 1: Start with a Warm Greeting
First things first, address the card properly. Decide if you are writing to just the mom-to-be or to both parents. Of course, if you’re close to the parents, a cute nickname or an inside joke makes it way more personalized. Here are a few ideas you can start with:
- “Dear [Mom’s Name],”
- “To the Beautiful Mama-to-Be,”
- “To [Parents’ Names],”
- “To the Best People I know!”
Step 2: Express Your Excitement
This is where you set the tone! Use this card to add encouragement to a first-time mom or a little boost of confidence. Most importantly remember that a baby shower is an exciting occasion, so let your excitement shine. Here are some ways to start:
- “This is happening. I am extremely excited for you! I can’t wait to see your new memories unfold as you embark on this beautiful new journey!”
- “You two have made a huge impact on my life. Your little one is already so fortunate to have such amazing parents!”
- “This baby is already surrounded by so much love, and I can’t wait to meet the latest incredible extension to your family!”
There is nothing better than a remix. So having a little mix of both of you is going to be the best! I can’t wait!
Step 3: Add a Personal Touch
Now that you have captured your excitement, let’s add a personal touch and don’t be afraid to get sentimental. Think about your relationship with the mom-to-be or parents-to-be and how this new chapter makes you feel. What makes your relationship with them special?
For example:
- If it’s your best friend: “From the moment we met, you have been a special part of my life. Now you’re about to become an amazing mom which is perfect because now your little one will get to enjoy your kindest heart, best sense of humour, and a love that knows no limits. Your baby is already in good hands!”
- For your sister: “I can’t believe how much time has flown by. I’ve watched you grow into an incredible woman, and now I get to watch you become an incredible mother. This baby is so fortunate to have you and so am I. You are going to be a great guide, protector, and biggest fan to this little one!”
- If it’s a co-worker: “The office is not going to be the same without you but I am happy to share you with your little one. I see how hard you work in the office so I have no doubt that motherhood will be no different. Wishing you all the love, joy and memories during this special time!”
Step 4: Share Advice (Only If Needed!)
I personally don’t believe that every baby shower card needs advice, but if you’re a parent yourself or have some heartfelt wisdom, I think it is a nice touch. That being said, don’t use this card to give unsolicited parenting lectures. Nobody likes unsolicited parenting advice so let the parents enjoy the moment!
- “Enjoy every moment because time truly does fly so don’t forget to soak in every cuddle!”
- “Remember that motherhood and parenting are never going to be perfect. You are doing all the right things and your love is more than enough!”
- “It’s definitely a learning curve but it’s worth the climb. Remember to always trust your instincts; you were made for this!”
Step 5: End with Love and Well Wishes
Now that you know what to write in a baby shower card, you are going to want to wrap up in a warm conclusion. Here are some sweet, warm ways to close:
- “Wishing you all the love, laughter, and happiness as you welcome this little version of you into the world!”
- “May your home be filled with baby giggles, tiny fingers and toes, sweet snuggles, and endless love.”
- “You’re in for the ride of your life! I can’t wait to celebrate this new adventure with you!”
Then, sign off with something personal:
- “With love,”
- “Hugs and baby cuddles,”
- “Excited for you always,”
- “Right here when you need me,”
What to Write Based on the Relationship
You got all the ingredients to write in the baby shower card but you would like some specific ideas? Don’t worry I got you! Here are a few awesome examples based on different relationships:
For a Best Friend
“You are going to have to pinch me because I cannot believe you are about to be a mama! I am jumping up and down because knowing you for as long as I have, I know without a doubt that you are going to be incredible as a mom. Your heart is full of endless love and your baby is already feeling it. I’m so excited about all the new memories you are going to make together. Wishing you nothing but love as you go on this most beautiful journey!”
For a First-Time Mom
“Everyone always says that your life is about to change and this change is going to be worth every minute. Yes, there will be sleepless nights and messy moments, but you’re the strongest person I know and with all the love you fuel up, this little one gets to enjoy an endless amount. You are so loved and you are always enough even if you have days when you don’t feel it. I am so excited that my heart might just burst. You’ve got this, mama!”
For a Second-Time Mom
“I didn’t think my heart could get any fuller but to know your family is growing is just the best gift to us all. Your little one is now going to be a loving, troublesome but incredible older sibling! So exciting! Continue to make more memories together as a family with even more love, laughter, and chaos (the best kind!).”
For a Work Friend or Acquaintance
“Congratulations! You are going to rock this new role of motherhood and I couldn’t be happier for you. Enjoy this exciting new chapter and adventure in your life! Wishing you and your little one all the happiness, love and joy. Can’t wait to see you shine!”
For Someone Who Waited a Long Time for This Moment
“You did it! Your journey to motherhood was not straight nor was it easy but you made it! You climb every mountain and now we get to celebrate with you at the finish line. You are one incredibly strong woman and your patience, and faith are commendable. This little fighter in you is so deeply loved already, and I couldn’t be happier for you. Wishing you two endless love! ”
Final Thoughts
Knowing what to write in a baby shower card doesn’t have to be complicated. This is your chance to make this mom-to-be or parents-to-be feel truly special. Whether getting to this time was a struggle or not, this is still the most exciting time of their life. So grab your pen and open that baby shower card because you now have plenty of inspiration to get you started. Let the words flow and your heart do the talking! You’ve got this!
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